After this past weekend, I realize who my friends are and who I should share my time with. I got to see which people really made an effort, made me feel special, and who would qualify as my real friend.
It’s tough watching people change and friendships dissolve. However, there are only so many times I will try to rekindle a friendship, especially when I notice that I am putting in far more effort than the other person. My birthday was a clear indicator of who will stay in my heart for the rest of the year and which people I should probably let go since they disappoint me. It’s also a weird (but good) experience to be so easily welcomed into a new group of friends this year but I am really enjoying the extra laughter, hangouts, and fun!
The failing friendship issue comprises only a few. I was so amazed by the number of friends who drove three or more hours to come spend time with me—this was truly the best birthday and week I can remember! And there were a couple of people that really went above and beyond to make me feel special and I am so grateful. One friend in particular made my birthday and whole week extraordinary to experience and I will not forget it. I’m still in such a good mood! Also, it was great seeing Dave again and picking up right where we left off…I miss him so much as a roommate!
Anyway, I am home now and look forward to spending some quality time with my family and friends. :)
